Monday, June 24, 2013

tolerance, when to change it

todays subject is about tolerance. tolerance can make you go very far. but how far will you let it go before you take action is even a bigger question. theirs pain tolerance emotional tolerance, and even accepting tolerance. but im talking about emotional tolerance. how far can it go to take action before what someone says can hurt you enough to make problems between the two of you. for instance there maybe someone you love, friend, family, girlfriend/boyfriend. all in all it makes no difference which one . all are the same. say someone in your family you mostly get along with you love but they can get on your nerves so much it kills you inside. here's how to fix it. just make an excuse showing no emotion to leave the room or to get away from the person. if you do this I guarantee you'll feel better and maybe the person was in a bad mood and they need to calm down as well. again this makes no difference for the  whatever person you are dealing with. all you need is time by yourself. everyone needs it at one point or another, but it is okay to make a mental cool down for 5 minutes and then get back to normal with what you are doing. I promise you that this will fix any problem you seem to have with the person who you are dealing with. no person is worth misery though. if someone that I your friend keeps on bothering you. let them know and if it doesn't change or its gets worse, just leave them. do not contact them though after. if they call or text you they want you back. if they don't they moved on and its better to you because it just proves you arnt worth their trouble. and neither should they be to you.

sincerely
floydvill
(someone who cares)

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